It’s a word I like and use a lot.
“Lovely,” is defined in the Cambridge dictionary as beautiful, pleasant, enjoyable and kind.
What a lovely word.
Lovely is what we need to look for in this world and I’ll tell you why. It will make you a happier and more fulfilled person.
1. Savour the Lovely.
Savour each moment that makes you happy. A funny thing your little one did. The kind gesture from a colleague. The text from a partner that make you feel loved. The walk in the woods amongst the trees. Savour these lovely moments however small and seemingly insignificant. Make a point of remembering them. It’s easier to say you’ve had a horrid day when actually there was only one horrid moment. Life is not all happiness. It can’t be but we can savour those lovely moments that make it an overall lovely day.
2. Cherish those lovely people in your life.
This should not be difficult but we sometimes forget that those lovely people in our lives need to be cherished. Those friends and family that have time for you. The ones that ring you when you are sick or meet you for a drink after work. The partner who makes you a cup of tea when you’ve had a hard day. Cherish those people as they are the ones that will make your life more fulfilling. Don’t work extra hard for the boss who doesn’t care about you. Work hard at the relationships that mean the most.
3. Find the lovely in you.
Find your inner lovely. When we discover the beauty in the things that we enjoy, we feed our own sense of worth. This brings satisfaction and only then can we be a lovely person. Seeing the positive and savouring it allows us to feel lovely inside. Only then can we share it with others.
4. Share the lovely.
Be kind and kindness will follow. Share the beauty of the world and more eyes will see it. Enjoy the things that are most precious to you and you will share that joy with others. Teach others to be lovely by being lovely yourself.
It’s not always easy but it’s got to be better to see and share the lovely things that are in this world than to only see the negative. I would like to believe this, do you?
Do you agree with me?
What do you find lovely and why?
As always, I’d love to know your thoughts my lovelies…..
A blog about my life in The Old House, a mum to teenagers, a primary school teacher and my passion for gardening.